Private Life (2018), Director: Tamara Jenkins, rated R for language, mature themes, some nudity

An affecting look at an easily identifiable rite of adult passage

Film ClipStarring: Kathryn Hahn, Paul Giamatti, Kayli Carter, Molly Shannon, Denis O'Hare, Emily Robinson, John Carroll Lynch

DML Rating: ★★★★★★★☆☆☆ - good

"It's just that whole... people with cappuccinos in their lofts, with their laptops, dogs, with messy hair. You know, that whole fantasy. It's not your fault. You guys are authentic and real, you've just been co-opted by cultural mechanisms that create desirability. I took a media and consumer society course. It was pretty life-altering." - Sadie

Why watch this? This will help you understand the complexities of assisted fertilization.

Plot Summary: A middle-aged couple in New York City desperately navigates the exhausting and often absurd world of infertility treatments and adoption, which puts a severe strain on their marriage. As their options dwindle and the emotional toll rises, they are forced to reconsider their initial, firm boundaries regarding third-party reproduction. Their lives take a complicated turn when their college-age step-niece moves in and offers to become an egg donor, leading to further familial tension and uncertainty.

  Dad's Preview: Even small movies can have impact. This very intimate exploration centers on a couple, Richard and Rachel, who are trying to have/create/acquire a baby. By "trying", I mean everything, including artificial insemination, in vitro fertilization, adoption, and finally, implanting Rachel with a donor egg. Enter Sadie, their 25-year-old niece who is a bit of a free spirit. She agrees to donate her eggs, and only hatches new family problems. There are not a lot of good films on this topic, however this overlooked gem delivers. Hahn and Giamatti are very real as our weary couple. We get to know them personally through their wit, laughter, tears and occasional spats. They possess that low muttering sarcasm, and the inside jokes, prevalent for most seasoned couples. They are completely believable.  


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