Dad's Top 20 Coming-of-Age Drama Films - Ranked!

Countdown from #20 to #1.

This includes Dad's spoiler-free Mini-Preview!

Honorable Mention

A Bronx Tale (1993), Director: Robert De Niro, rated R for mob violence

One man lives in the neighborhood, another man owns it.
A devoted father battles the local crime boss for the life of his son.

Film ClipStarring: Robert De Niro, Chazz Palminteri, Lillo Brancato, Francis Capra, Taral Hicks, Katrine Narducci, Clem Caserta, Joe Pesci

DML Rating: ★★★★★★★★☆☆ - great

"People don't love him, they fear him. There's a difference." - Lorenzo, talking about Sonny

Why watch this? This powerful film showcases De Niro's directing and acting talents.

Plot Summary: This story is about a young boy, Calogero, raised alone by his hard-working father, Lorenzo, a bus driver. On the streets, the boy becomes enamored with Sonny, a local mobster, who takes the kid under his wing. His father is not pleased. Things get dicey as the young man feel allegiance to both his father and Sonny. To make things worse, Calogero has falled for a young black girl - which doesn't go over well with the Italians.

  Dad's Preview: Chazz Palminteri, who stars as Sonny, wrote the one-man play that inspired this film. Robert De Niro saw the play and was determined to make it into a film. He acquired the rights, and Palminteri wrote the screenplay. This is a superb father/son movie with a lot of mob influence thrown in.  


Price Entertainment, Tribeca Prod.;
Savoy Pictures

Top 20 Coming-of-Age Drama Films #20 Top

Boyhood (2014), Director: Richard Linklater, rated R for language

12 years in the making

Film ClipStarring: Ellar Coltrane, Patricia Arquette, Ethan Hawke, Lorelei Linklater, Libby Villari, Marco Perella, Brad Hawkins

DML Rating: ★★★★★★★★☆☆ - great

"You don't want the bumpers, life doesn't give you bumpers." - Dad to his son while bowling

Why watch this? This incredible unique film is a case study on humanity.

Plot Summary: This groundbreaking film follows the life of a young boy, Mason, from age 6 to 18. Shot over a 12-year period with the same cast, the film captures his experiences growing up in Texas with divorced parents and his sister. Through a series of ordinary yet impactful, moments, we witness the universal journey of childhood and adolescence.

  Dad's Preview: Filmed from 2002 to 2013, that's eleven years in the life of the actors. The young star is Ellar Coltrane whose life we watch as he ages - from childhood to adolescence, and finally to age 18. It is highly regarded by critics for its incredible reality and lack of pretense. We experience his happiness, his trials, his changing personality. It's like watching a flower bud and bloom in accelerated motion. This wonderful film concept is a miracle to behold.  


IFC Productions, Detour Filmproduction,
Cinetic Media; IFC Films

Top 20 Coming-of-Age Drama Films #19 Top

Great Expectations (1946; American release in 1947), Director: David Lean, rated Approved

From the Vivid Pages of Charles Dickens' Masterpiece!

Film ClipStarring: John Mills, Valerie Hobson, Tony Wager, Jean Simmons, Bernard Miles, Francis L. Sullivan, Finlay Currie, Martitia Hunt, Alec Guinness, Ivor Barnard, Freda Jackson, Eileen Erskine, George Hayes

DML Rating: ★★★★★★★★☆☆ - great

"Estella has been part of my existence ever since I first came here, the rough, common boy whose heart she wounded even then. She has been the embodiment of every graceful fancy that my mind has ever known. To the last hour of my life she cannot choose but remain part of my character, part of the little good in me, part of the evil." - Pip

Why watch this? This film adaptation of the Charles Dickens classic novel is superb.

Plot Summary: An humble orphan, nicknamed Pip, has his life transformed after a terrifying encounter with an escaped convict and subsequent visits to the mysterious, wealthy, heartbroken Miss Havisham and her beautiful ward, Estella. With the help of an unknown benefactor, Pip moves to London to become a gentleman, allowing him to pursue his love for Estella while abandoning his simple roots.

  Dad's Preview: As expected, this film immerses its audience into early 19th century England. We get to know a simple common family, eking out a living on the foggy moors. Where this film excels is the creation of its complex characters: a young farm boy who wants to become a proper gentleman, an scary escaped convict, a spinster, living in a dusty mansion manipulating those around her. This epic brings these people, and their interlocking stories, together with intensity and grace. We are subjected to love and heartbreak, fortunes and loss, and, in the end, a final truth that gives us all hope. There is a reason this story is a literary classic, and you'll benefit from knowing it.   


Anthony Havelock-Allan, Ronald Neame, Cineguild;
General Film Distributors, Ltd.

Top 20 Coming-of-Age Drama Films #18 Top

The Holdovers (2023), Director: Alexander Payne, rated R for language, some drug use

Discomfort And Joy.

Film ClipStarring: Paul Giamatti, Da'Vine Joy Randolph, Dominic Sessa, Carrie Preston, Brady Hepner, Ian Dolley, Jim Kaplan, Michael Provost, Andrew Garman, Naheem Garcia, Stephen Thorne, Gillian Vigman

DML Rating: ★★★★★★★★★☆ - near perfect

"You know, Mr. Kountze, for most people, life is like a henhouse ladder: shitty and short. You were born lucky. Maybe someday, you entitled little degenerates will appreciate that. If you don't, I feel sorry for you and we will have failed to do our jobs." - Paul Hunham

Why watch this? Giamatti, Da'Vine Joy, and newcomer Dominic Sessa captivate in this gem.

Plot Summary: Set in 1970, a strict and unpopular history teacher at a New England boarding school is forced to supervise students who have nowhere to go during Christmas break. He is left stranded on campus with a brainy but troubled teenager and the grieving head cook. Together, these three unlikely companions form a makeshift family and share unexpected misadventures that help them heal from their pasts.
 
  Dad's Preview: This New England dramedy begs me to watch it again. It's filled with perhaps the wittiest dialogue in the last few years. It introduces us to a slew of interesting characters, then effectively whisks many of them away to a ski vacation. We are left with the true holdovers: Mary, the school's cafeteria manager; Paul, a stubborn teacher living in a sort of self-imposed exile; and Angus, an intelligent, but inwardly angry young boarding school student. Let the in-depth exploration of these three incredibly interesting souls begin! There is a richness here, like an ordinary piece of cake that, when bitten into, blows your mind with its complex flavors. If it feels like a comedy and a drama, it is. It's also a holiday film about what holidays should center on - appreciating those in your orbit who, despite liking them or not, impact you in positive ways.  


Miramax, Gran Via; Focus Features

Top 20 Coming-of-Age Drama Films #17 Top

CODA (2021), Director: Sian Heder, rated PG-13 for language

Every family has its own language.

Film ClipStarring: Emilia Jones, Eugenio Derbez, Troy Kotsur, Ferdia Walsh-Peelo, Daniel Durant, Marlee Matlin

DML Rating: ★★★★★★★★★☆ - near perfect

"You know why God made farts smell? So deaf people could enjoy them too." - Frank Rossi

Why watch this? It's so unique, and necessary, to watch such a wonderful film!

Plot Summary: CODA follows Ruby, a high school senior who is the only hearing member of her deaf family. She helps her family run their struggling fishing business, acting as their interpreter and connecting them to the hearing world. When Ruby discovers her passion and talent for singing, she finds herself torn between her obligations to her family and her aspirations to pursue her dreams.

  Dad's Preview: CODA grabbed me from the first minute. It pulls you in. You cannot take your eyes off the screen. It requires your dedicated focus and concentration. That's the point. The film exposes us to the stark reality that the deaf community lives with every second of every day. This soulful film is funny, painful, inspirational, light, heavy - everything. Troy Kotsur, as Ruby's father, really captured my heart; man, I felt every pang of anguish emanating from his eyes... and his deepest soul.  


Vendôme Pictures, Pathé; Apple Original Films

Top 20 Coming-of-Age Drama Films #16 Top

Grave of the Fireflies (1988), Director: Isao Takahata, Not rated (Dad's guess PG-13)

It belongs on any list of the greatest war films ever made - Roger Ebert

Film ClipStarring: (the voice talents of:) Tsutomu Tatsumi, Ayano Shiraishi, Akemi Yamaguchi, Yoshiko Shinohara, Kôzô Hashida, Masayo Sakai, Kazumi Nozaki, Yoshio Matsuoka, Masahiro Kanetake, Kiyoshi Yanagawa

DML Rating: ★★★★★★★★★☆ - near perfect

"Why do fireflies have to die so soon?" - Setsuko

Why watch this? War is hell on soldiers, but it's also hell on the civilians that live beneath falling bombs.

Plot Summary: During the final months of World War II in Japan, teenage Seita and his young sister Setsuko are orphaned after an American firebombing destroys their home and separates them from their parents. The two children must rely completely on one another for survival, struggling to find food and shelter in the war-torn countryside after a falling out with their unsympathetic aunt. Their story is a heartbreaking tale of the devastating impact of war on innocent civilians and the profound strength of their sibling bond amidst unimaginable hardship.

  Dad's Preview: This visceral, emotional film depicts the cost war takes on civilians. It is based on a semi-autobiographical short story written by Akiyuki Nosaka, who himself survived during and after the incendiary bombings of Kobe, Japan. The people left to fend for themselves amid the rubble of their world had it bad enough. Nosaka had the added responsibility of caring for his little sister, Setsuko. Though an animated feature, their journey is anything but childish or funny. It heart-shattering, as they fight to find food and stay alive. This is about incredibly courage and horrible tragedy. Many consider this to be one of the greatest animated films ever made. For me, it is a necessary anti-war film that drives home the point: war simply kills people. Period.  


Studio Ghibli; Toho

Top 20 Coming-of-Age Drama Films #15 Top

The Fabelmans (2022), Director: Steven Spielberg, rated PG-13 for adult themes

Capture every moment.

Film ClipStarring: Michelle Williams, Paul Dano, Seth Rogan, Gabriel LaBelle, Judd Hirsch, Jeannie Berlin, Robin Bartlett, Sam Rechner, Chloe East

DML Rating: ★★★★★★★★★☆ - near perfect

"In this family, it's the scientists versus the artists. Sammy's on my team, he takes after me, except he's got real talent."– Mitzi Fabelman

Why watch this? How and why would a boy want to make movies? Here's one way...

Plot Summary: Based on Steven Spielberg's childhood, The Fabelmans follows Sammy Fabelman, a young aspiring filmmaker, as he navigates his coming-of-age in post-World War II America. He discovers a profound family secret, forcing him to confront difficult truths about his parents and those around him. Ultimately, Sammy explores how the power of film helps him understand his family and pursue his dream of becoming a storyteller.

  Dad's Preview: There are two films that evoke the power of motion pictures. The first is the treasure Cinema Paradiso (1988). This is the second. The great Steven Spielberg finally gives us his story in this film based loosely on his life. Thank God he does not sugarcoat it. This has all the pains he experienced: the disappointment of his father, anti-Semitic bullying and his parent's divorce. Yet through all that, and maybe to some degree because of all that, one of our generations greatest storytellers was born.  


Amblin Ent., Reliance Ent.; Universal Studios

Top 20 Coming-of-Age Drama Films #14 Top

Millions (2004), Director: Danny Boyle, rated PG

Can anyone be truly good?

Film ClipStarring: Alex Etelm, Lewis Owen McGibbon, James Nesbitt, Daisy Donovan, Christopher Fulford, Pearce Quigley, Jane Hogarth

DML Rating: ★★★★★★★★★☆ - near perfect

"God doesn't rob banks, all right? God does not rob banks." – Damian Cunningham

Why watch this? Sometimes it's fun to watch British youngsters in a unique situation.

Plot Summary: Seven-year-old Damian finds a duffel bag stuffed with money that seemingly falls from the sky. He believes it's a gift from God and wants to use it for good, while his older brother Anthony desires to spend it on personal luxuries. The brothers face a moral dilemma and a race against time, as the money's value is about to change and its mysterious origins attract unwanted attention.

  Dad's Preview: Two British children, Alex and Lewis, suddenly find themselves in possession of a large duffle bag of cash. A LOT of cash. This funny and touching story goes through what happens next, who they tell, and what they eventually do with the money. To add some flair, young Alex often communes with dead Saints. Yea, kinda like The Sixth Sense (1999), but not scary at all. This film is delightful on so many levels.  


UK Film Council, BBC Films, Mission Pictures,
Inside Track 2, Ingenious Film Partners;
Pathé Distribution

Top 20 Coming-of-Age Drama Films #13 Top

What's Eating Gilbert Grape (1993), Director: Lasse Hallström, rated PG-13 for mature themes

Life is a Terrible Thing to Sleep Through.

Film ClipStarring: Johnny Depp, Leonardo DiCaprio, Juliette Lewis, Darlene Cates, Laura Harrington, Mary Kate Schellhardt, Kevin Tighe, John C. Reilly

DML Rating: ★★★★★★★★★☆ - near perfect

"I'm not gonna let her be a joke." - Gilbert, speaking about his mother

Why watch this? This heart-rendering story is superb thanks to its incredible cast.

Plot Summary: Gilbert Grape is a young man burdened by the weight of caring for his morbidly obese mother and his intellectually disabled younger brother, Arnie, in their small, stagnant Iowa town. Gilbert struggles to balance his family responsibilities with his own desires for happiness and freedom, feeling trapped by his circumstances. His life takes an unexpected turn with the arrival of Becky, a free-spirited woman who challenges his perspective and offers him a glimpse of a different future.

  Dad's Preview: A lot of warranted attention went to 19-year-old Leo DiCaprio, who garnered a Supporting Actor Oscar nomination, but it's Johnny Depp who makes it all work. You can just feel the weight he bears each and every day supporting his dysfunctional family. Yet, for as bad as it is, he still manages to keep going, hoping that things will someday change for all of them. Why the Academy disrespects Mr. Depp is beyond me.    


Matalon Teper Ohisson; Paramount Pics

Top 20 Coming-of-Age Drama Films #12 Top

The Perks of Being a Wallflower (2012), Director: Stephen Chbosky, rated PG-13

We accept the love we think we deserve.

Film ClipStarring: Logan Lerman, Emma Watson, Ezra Miller, Mae Whitman, Kate Walsh, Dylan McDermott, Joan Cusack, Paul Rudd

DML Rating: ★★★★★★★★★☆ - near perfect

"You can't just sit there and put everybody's lives ahead of yours and think that counts as love." - Samantha "Sam" Button

Why watch this? It is an interesting, relevant, coming-of-age story that most of use can relate to.

Plot Summary: The film follows un-extraordinary Charlie, a freshman high school student. He suffers from clinical depression and is therefore incredibly shy. He meets two seniors, Patrick (an extremely animated and rebellious gay boy) and his step-sister Samantha "Sam" (a quite, awkward and adorable girl who is in a steady relationship). Patrick and Sam decide it's a good idea to bring Charlie into their small group of social outcasts; sorta take him under their wings. The brainy Patrick quickly develops a crush on Sam, and he helps her study to improve her SAT score. Then normal high school stuff occurs and starts to un-repress Charlie's mental issues.

  Dad's Preview: About ten minutes into this film, I felt it grab me. It felt fresh, creative and from the heart. This often-poignant story centers on the over-blown concepts of being "cool", and the ever-present pressures of high school. Why can't kids just be who they are? It has a lot to do with parents who demand that their kids stand out, make A's, be exceptional. How will mediocre get the scholarship or big job? This film begs to differ. Life is wonderful because of these "wallflowers" exist, filling the spaces and giving many delightful misfits a place to feel safe... and even loved.  


Mr. Mudd Productions; Summit Ent. thru
Lionsgate

Top 20 Coming-of-Age Drama Films #11 Top

The Breakfast Club (1985), Director: John Hughes, rated R for language; mild drug use

Five strangers with nothing in common, except each other.

Film ClipStarring: Emilio Estevez, Paul Gleason, Anthony Michael Hall, Judd Nelson, Molly Ringwald, Ally Sheedy, Paul Gleason

DML Rating: ★★★★★★★★★☆ - near perfect

"When you grow up, your heart dies." - Allison

Why watch this? So many 80's teen comedies were a waste of time. Not this one.

Plot Summary: Five high school students, representing different social cliques, are forced to spend a Saturday in detention together. Over the course of the day, their initial differences and stereotypes break down as they discover shared anxieties and vulnerabilities. Through heartfelt conversations and moments of connection, they come to realize they have more in common than they thought, challenging their preconceived notions of each other and themselves.

  Dad's Preview: I was expecting another John Hughes sappy teen comedy (which I am fine with), but from the start, this film was different. Here we have five very different teenagers. At first they're loyal to their groups: the nerd, the jock, the rich bitch, the emo introvert, the rebel. Slowly, though, as the day drags on, they all open up, exposing their weaknesses, being vulnerable. It's touching, and real, leaving the viewers to grapple with the cliques they might have belonged to, and perhaps those they treated badly because of it.  


A&M Films, Channel Productions;
Universal Pictures

Top 20 Coming-of-Age Drama Films #10 Top

Parenthood (1989), Director: Ron Howard, rated PG-13 for adult themes

The director of "Splash," "Willow" and "Cocoon" brings you a comedy about life, love and the gentle art of raising children.

Film ClipStarring: Steve Martin, Tom Hulce, Jason Robarbs, Diane Wiest, Rick Moranis, Martha Plimpton, Keanu Reeves, Mary Steenburgen, Joaquin Phoenix

DML Rating: ★★★★★★★★★★ - perfect

“My whole life is have to." - Gil Buckman

Why watch this? ... it's great film about a normal family with its traumas, issues and events.

Plot Summary: The film follows the chaotic and often humorous lives of the Buckman family, showcasing the joys and tribulations across multiple generations as they navigate the complexities of raising children. The film explores various parenting styles and the challenges each family member faces, including career pressure, marital difficulties, and the struggle to understand and guide their children through different stages of life.

  Dad's Preview: Steve Martin plays an excellent father in many flicks. Ironically, in real-life he bore no children. This film touches on the things that parents do to deal with "family things" that are often out of their control: a child who lacks confidence; an adult son who always makes bad decisions; parents who obsess with perfection. Those are serious topics, and Parenthood covers them in a way that makes you laugh. You'll enjoy the warm performances from a stellar all-star cast.  


Imagine Entertainment; Universal Pictures

Top 20 Coming-of-Age Drama Films #9 Top

The Cowboys (1972), Director: Mark Rydell, rated PG for violence, language

All they wanted was their chance to be men...and he gave it to them.

Film ClipStarring: John Wayne, Roscoe Lee Brown, Bruce Dern, Colleen Dewhurst, Adolfo Martinez, Slim Pickens, Stephen Hudis

DML Rating: ★★★★★★★★★☆ - near perfect

"I'm thirty years older than you are. I had my back broke once, and my hip twice. And on my worst day I could beat the hell out of you." – Wil Anderson

Why watch this? Wayne has never been better, as a man desperate to drive his cattle to market.

Plot Summary: Wil Andersen, a rancher needing help for his cattle drive, is forced to hire on a group of inexperienced schoolboys after his regular crew leaves for the gold rush. He trains these youngsters, who learn about life and the responsibilities of being a cowboy during their arduous journey. Their challenging drive is complicated by the presence of a gang of rustlers who are after their herd.

  Dad's Preview: This is a superb non-standard Western. Wayne has to holster his pistols and become a surrogate father for the young boys he has hired for the trail drive. I'll forever love Roscoe Lee Brown as Mr. Nightlinger, the cook, who breathes real life into his role. And who will ever forget Bruce Dern as "Long Hair", the film's creepy, murderous antagonist. I love it when the Dukes tells the boys each early morning, "We're burnin' daylight!"  


Mark Rydell; Warner Bros.

Top 20 Coming-of-Age Drama Films #8 Top

Up (2009), Director: Pete Docter, rated PG

The greatest adventure is just getting back home.

Film ClipStarring: Ed Asner, Christopher Plummer, Jordan Nagai, Bob Peterson, Delroy Lindo

DML Rating: ★★★★★★★★★★ - perfect

DML Top 50 #35 - Dad's Full (Spoiler) Review and Deep Dive of Up

"My name is Dug. I have just met you, and I love you." - Dug

Why watch this? I feel-good story that requires your imagination and suspension of belief.

Plot Summary: Carl Fredricksen, a retired balloon salesman, embarks on a journey to the wilds of South America in his house, lifted by thousands of balloons, fulfilling a lifelong dream. He unintentionally takes along a stowaway and young Wilderness Explorer named Russell. The unlikely duo encounters adventure, strange creatures, and a surprising revelation about Carl's childhood hero on their journey towards Paradise Falls.
 
  Dad's Preview: In a crowded stable of excellent Pixar-Disney films, this one stands out for me. Perhaps it's Carl, the grumpy old man looking to get away from a world that doesn't want him any more. Maybe it's Russell, the cheeky, plump young Boy Scout trying to earn his merit badges. It could be Dug, the delightful dog who is enabled "talk" thanks to a voice modulator. Combine these quirky characters with a high-flying, creative premise, and you have a winner in my book. It packs a punch, too - You'll be bawling before the opening credits have finished rolling.  


Pixar Animation Studios; Walt Disney
Studios Motion Pictures

Top 20 Coming-of-Age Drama Films #7 Top

Spirited Away (2001, U.S. release date 2002), Director: Hayao Miyazaki, rated PG

Prepare to be spirited away.

Film ClipStarring: Rumi Hiiragi, Miyu Irino, Mari Natsuki, Takeshi Naito, Yasuko Sawaguchi
English dub - Daveigh Chase, Jason Marsden, Suzanne Pleshette, Lauren Holly, Michael Chiklis, David Ogden Stiers

DML Rating: ★★★★★★★★★★ - perfect

"Three days of eating our food and her smell will go away. And if she doesn't work hard, roast her, boil her, do whatever you want. Now get back to work." - Haku

Why watch this? You need to experience this visual wonder conveyed by Hayao Miyazaki.

Plot Summary: During her family's move, a sullen 10-year-old girl named Chihiro wanders into a world ruled by gods, witches, and spirits. Her parents are transformed into pigs after eating unattended food in an abandoned amusement park, leaving Chihiro trapped in this strange realm. To survive and find a way back, Chihiro must secure employment at a bathhouse for spirits, where she encounters various magical beings and faces numerous challenges.

  Dad's Preview: Though this was released by Disney, it's  not a Disney film, and I suggest that it's not really for small children. It is a wonderful fable about a young girl's dream-like transition from child to young adult. Throw in a lot of creative symbolism, some of which has meaning, some not so much. It is visually wild, and you'll wonder, "Who thinks up this stuff?" Director Miyazaki apparently, and thank goodness for his unique perspective. Who also loved it was the Academy, rewarding this with the Oscar for Best Animated Feature Film.  


Studio Ghibli; Toho

Top 20 Coming-of-Age Drama Films #6 Top

Cinema Paradiso (1988), Director: Giuseppe Tornatore, rated PG

A celebration of youth, friendship, and the everlasting magic of the movies.

Film ClipStarring: Phillippe Noiret, Salvatore Cascio, Marco Leonardi, Agnese Nano, Antonella Attili, Enzo Cannavale

DML Rating: ★★★★★★★★★★ - perfect

"Whatever you end up doing, love it. The way you loved the projection booth when you were a young squirt." - Alfredo

Why watch this? This single film, more than any other, explains why I love movies.

Plot Summary: This story follows Salvatore, a celebrated film director, who returns to his Sicilian hometown for the funeral of his childhood mentor and friend, Alfredo. The film is told through a flashbacks, reflecting on Salvatore's youth and his bond with Alfredo, the projectionist at the local cinema. Through their shared love for movies and the lessons Alfredo imparts, Salvatore finds guidance and inspiration that shapes his path to becoming a filmmaker.

  Dad's Preview: It is impossible for me to explain this film with getting emotional. This wonderful film traverses through time and tragedy, with "moving pictures" as a constant backdrop for everything that happens during the boy's journey to adulthood. Especially poignant is his love affair with the beautiful Elena. This powerful film's ending is incredibly emotional, and I tear up just thinking about.  


Les Films Ariane, RAI, TF1, Cristaldi Film,
Forum Picture; Titanus, Ariane Dist.

Top 20 Coming-of-Age Drama Films #5 Top

Stand By Me (1986), Director: Rob Reiner, rated R for language, crude humor

For some, it's the last real taste of innocence, and the first real taste of life.
But for everyone, it's the time that memories are made of
.

Film ClipStarring: Wil Wheaton, River Phoenix, Corey Feldman, Jerry O’Connell, Kiefer Sutherland, Casey Siemaszko, Frances Lee McCain, Richard Dreyfuss

DML Rating: ★★★★★★★★★★ - perfect

"Boy, you don't know nothing. Mighty Mouse is a cartoon. Superman's a real guy. There's no way a cartoon could beat up a real guy!" - Teddy

Why watch this? I was one of these kids, going on long adventures, playing in the woods, worrying my mom.

Plot Summary: Four young friends are on a journey through the Oregon wilderness in the summer of 1959, as they search for a missing boy. During their quest, they face various adventures and challenges, which test their bonds and force them to confront personal struggles. This journey becomes a coming-of-age experience, shaping their individual paths and deepening their understanding of friendship and loss.

  Dad's Preview: This is yet another film created from a Stephen King story (The Body). It follows four 12-year-old boys who venture to find the body of a boy who was killed along a remote stretch of railroad tracks. The strength of this film is simply the mannerisms and interactions between the boys. Each one is different, with unique skills and problems. Yet they stick together, as they get closer to their grim destination.  


Act III Productions; Columbia Pictures

Top 20 Coming-of-Age Drama Films #4 Top

Good Will Hunting (1997), Director: Gus Van Sant; rated R for language

Some people can never believe in themselves, until someone believes in them.

Film ClipStarring: Robin Williams, Matt Damon, Ben Affleck, Stellan Skarsgard, Minnie Driver, Casey Affleck, Cole Hauser, Matt Mercier

DML Rating: ★★★★★★★★★★ - perfect

"If you ever disrespect my wife again, I will end you. I will f'ing end you. You got that, chief?" – Sean Maguire

Why watch this? ... it's layered and powerful - Williams, Damon, and an incredible script.

Plot Summary: Will Hunting is a gifted but troubled young man from South Boston who works as a janitor at MIT. After solving a challenging math problem left on a blackboard, Will's extraordinary intelligence is discovered by a professor. To avoid jail time for his reckless behavior, Will agrees to work with the professor and attend therapy sessions with an empathetic psychologist who helps him confront his past and unlock his potential.
 
  Dad's Preview: This one of Robin Williams' greatest performances (he won the Academy Award for Best Supporting Actor). It was this film, and its screenplay, that catapulted Affleck and Damon onto Hollywood's radar. However, the film is carried by the relationship between Damon, a boy genius, and Williams, a honest psychiatrist who searches for a way to reach a boy who specializes in out-witting those around him. When these two are on screen, you can cannot look away. You hang on every word.  


Be Gentlemen; Miramax Films

Top 20 Coming-of-Age Drama Films #3 Top

Dead Poets Society (1989), Director: Peter Weir, rated PG-13

He was their inspiration. He made their lives extraordinary.

Film ClipStarring: Robin Williams, Ethan Hawke, Robert Sean Leonard, Josh Charles, Kurtwood Smith, George Martin

DML Rating: ★★★★★★★★★★ - perfect

"No matter what anybody tells you, words and ideas can change the world." – John Keating

Why watch this? It shows the wonder found in new, controversial ideas; and the lengths some people will go to suppress them.

Plot Summary: At a strict all-boys preparatory school in 1959, an unconventional English teacher uses poetry to inspire his students to embrace individuality and challenge societal expectations. He encourages them to "seize the day" and pursue their passions, leading to both inspiring self-discovery and direct confrontation with school officials used to doing things more conservatively.

  Dad's Preview: Robin Williams really changed his career trajectory with this film. It established him as more than just a comedic actor. It is a wonderful, albeit painful, story of a prep school English teacher who is ahead of his time. He desperately strives to tap into the passions within his young male students (using his witty comedy style). The film is uplifting, wonderful and simultaneously tragic. Everyone will forever remember the phrase, "Carpe Diem!"  


Touchstone Pics, Silver Screen Partners IV;
Buena Vista Pictures Distributing

Top 20 Coming-of-Age Drama Films #2 Top

The Color Purple (1985), Director: Steven Spielberg, rated PG-13 for language

It's about life. It's about love. It's about us.

Film ClipStarring: Whoopi Goldberg, Danny Glover, Oprah Winfrey, Adolph Caesar, Margaret Avery, Rae Dawn Chong

DML Rating: ★★★★★★★★★★ - perfect

"A girl child ain't safe in a family of mens, but I ain't never thought I'd have to fight in my own house! I loves Harpo, God knows I do. But I'll kill him dead 'fo I let him beat me." - Sofia

Why watch this? This incredible saga shows that courage can be silent and strength is enduring.

Plot Summary: The film follows timid Celie, an African-American woman in early 1900's rural Georgia, as she endures difficult circumstances, including domestic violence and bigotry. Separated from her beloved sister Nettie, Celie finds strength and hope through various relationships, particularly with the strong-willed singer Shug Avery and her own growing self-reliance. The story spans forty years, depicting Celie's journey from oppression to finding her voice.

  Dad's Preview: This is a journey wrought with pain, cruelty and oppression. This inspiring film was our introduction to the amazing Whoopi Goldberg, Danny Glover and the indomitable Oprah Winfrey. Director Steven Spielberg, though he took a lot of crap for it, again, hits the cinematic mark. If you don't see only black and white, check out this valuable American story about a part of our history that needs to be told.  


Amblin Entertainment, The Guber-Peters
Company; Warner Bros.

Top 20 Coming-of-Age Drama Films #1 Top

Almost Famous (2000), Director: Cameron Crowe, rated PG-13 for language, sexual situations

Stillwater Runs Deep!

Film ClipStarring: Patrick Fugit, Kate Hudson, Billy Crudup, Jason Lee, Frances McDormand, Anna Paquin, Fairuza Balk, Philip S. Hoffman, Zooey Deschanel

DML Rating: ★★★★★★★★★★ - perfect

DML Top 50 #31 - Dad's Full (Spoiler) Review and Deep Dive of Almost Famous

"Aw, man. You made friends with them. See, friendship is the booze they feed you. They want you to get drunk on feeling like you belong." - Lester Bangs

Why watch this? It's the swan song about rock and rock in my era, you know, the awesome 70's!

Plot Summary: William Miller, at 15-years-old, is an aspiring journalist who gets a dream assignment: to write a cover story for Rolling Stone magazine. He embarks on a tour leg with the up-and-coming rock band Stillwater, experiencing the highs and lows of life on the road. William navigates the world of rock and roll, forming relationships with the band members and a groupie named Penny Lane, all while trying to maintain his journalistic integrity.

 

Dad's Preview: Much of the film's earnestness comes from the film's director, Cameron Crowe, who lived a life similar to young William Miller. He too was a Rolling Stone writer, and his wife is none other than Nancy Wilson, guitarist for Heart - So the man knows the rock world. Bill Crudup, as the incendiary Russell Hammond, is unforgettable. Kate Hudson's pretty darn good, too. It has great musical performances and a wonderful soundtrack documenting the last great years of Rock 'n' Roll.

 


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