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Dad's Top
20 Coming-of-Age Drama Films - Ranked!
Countdown from #20 to #1.
This
includes Dad's spoiler-free Mini-Preview!
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Honorable
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A Bronx
Tale
(1993),
Director: Robert De Niro, rated R for mob violence
One
man lives in the neighborhood, another man owns it.
A devoted father battles the local crime boss for the
life of his son.
 Starring:
Robert De Niro, Chazz Palminteri, Lillo Brancato, Francis Capra,
Taral Hicks, Katrine Narducci, Clem Caserta, Joe Pesci
DML Rating:
★★★★★★★★☆☆
- great
"People don't love
him, they fear him. There's a difference." -
Lorenzo, talking about
Sonny
Why watch this? This
powerful film showcases De Niro's directing and acting talents.
Plot Summary: This
story is about a young boy, Calogero, raised alone by his hard-working father, Lorenzo,
a bus driver. On the streets, the boy becomes enamored with
Sonny, a local mobster, who takes the kid under his wing. His
father is
not pleased. Things get dicey as the young man feel allegiance
to both
his father and Sonny. To make things worse, Calogero has falled
for a young black girl -
which doesn't go over well with the Italians.
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Dad's Preview:
Chazz Palminteri, who stars as Sonny, wrote the one-man play
that inspired this film. Robert De Niro saw the play and
was determined to make it into a film. He acquired the
rights, and Palminteri wrote the screenplay. This is a superb
father/son movie with a lot of mob influence thrown in. |
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Price
Entertainment, Tribeca Prod.;
Savoy Pictures |
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Top 20
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#20 Top |
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Boyhood (2014),
Director: Richard Linklater, rated R for language
12
years in the making
 Starring:
Ellar Coltrane, Patricia Arquette, Ethan Hawke, Lorelei
Linklater, Libby Villari, Marco Perella, Brad Hawkins
DML Rating:
★★★★★★★★☆☆
- great
"You don't want the
bumpers, life doesn't give you bumpers." -
Dad to his son while
bowling
Why watch this? This
incredible unique film is a case study on
humanity.
Plot Summary: This
groundbreaking film follows the life of a young boy, Mason, from
age 6 to 18. Shot over a 12-year period with the same cast, the
film captures his experiences growing up in Texas with divorced
parents and his sister. Through a series of ordinary yet
impactful, moments, we witness the universal journey of
childhood and adolescence.
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Dad's Preview:
Filmed from 2002 to 2013, that's eleven years in the life of the
actors. The young star is Ellar Coltrane whose life we
watch as he ages - from childhood to adolescence, and finally to age 18.
It is highly regarded by critics
for its incredible reality and lack of
pretense. We
experience his
happiness, his trials, his changing personality.
It's like watching a flower bud and bloom in accelerated motion.
This wonderful film concept is a miracle to behold. |
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IFC
Productions, Detour Filmproduction,
Cinetic Media; IFC
Films |
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Top 20
Coming-of-Age Drama Films
#19 Top |
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Great Expectations (1946; American release in 1947),
Director: David Lean, rated Approved
From the
Vivid Pages of Charles Dickens' Masterpiece!
 Starring:
John Mills, Valerie Hobson, Tony Wager, Jean Simmons, Bernard
Miles, Francis L. Sullivan, Finlay Currie, Martitia Hunt, Alec
Guinness, Ivor Barnard, Freda Jackson, Eileen Erskine, George
Hayes
DML Rating:
★★★★★★★★☆☆
- great
"Estella has been part
of my existence ever since I first came here, the rough, common
boy whose heart she wounded even then. She has been the
embodiment of every graceful fancy that my mind has ever known.
To the last hour of my life she cannot choose but remain part of
my character, part of the little good in me, part of the evil." -
Pip
Why watch this? This
film adaptation of the Charles Dickens classic novel is superb.
Plot Summary:
An humble orphan, nicknamed Pip, has his life transformed after
a terrifying encounter with an escaped convict and subsequent
visits to the mysterious, wealthy, heartbroken Miss Havisham and
her beautiful ward, Estella. With the help of an unknown
benefactor, Pip moves to London to become a gentleman, allowing
him to pursue his love for Estella while abandoning his simple
roots.
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Dad's Preview:
As expected, this film immerses its audience into early
19th century England. We get to know a simple common
family, eking out a living on the foggy moors. Where
this film excels is the creation of its complex
characters: a young farm boy who wants to become a
proper gentleman, an scary escaped convict, a spinster,
living in a dusty mansion manipulating those around her.
This epic brings these people, and their interlocking
stories, together with intensity and grace. We are
subjected to love and heartbreak, fortunes and loss,
and, in the end, a final truth that gives us all hope.
There is a reason this story is a literary classic, and
you'll benefit from knowing it. |
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Anthony
Havelock-Allan, Ronald Neame, Cineguild;
General Film Distributors, Ltd. |
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Top 20
Coming-of-Age Drama Films
#18
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The Holdovers (2023),
Director: Alexander Payne, rated R for language,
some drug use
Discomfort And
Joy.
 Starring:
Paul Giamatti, Da'Vine Joy Randolph, Dominic Sessa, Carrie Preston, Brady Hepner,
Ian Dolley, Jim Kaplan, Michael Provost, Andrew Garman, Naheem Garcia, Stephen
Thorne, Gillian Vigman
DML Rating:
★★★★★★★★★☆
- near perfect
"You know, Mr.
Kountze, for most people, life is like a henhouse ladder: shitty
and short. You were born lucky. Maybe someday, you entitled
little degenerates will appreciate that. If you don't, I feel
sorry for you and we will have failed to do our jobs." -
Paul Hunham
Why watch this?
Giamatti, Da'Vine Joy, and newcomer Dominic Sessa captivate
in this gem.
Plot Summary:
Set in 1970, a strict and unpopular history teacher at a New
England boarding school is forced to supervise students who have
nowhere to go during Christmas break. He is left stranded on
campus with a brainy but troubled teenager and the grieving head
cook. Together, these three unlikely companions form a makeshift
family and share unexpected misadventures that help them heal
from their pasts.
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Dad's Preview:
This New England dramedy begs me to watch it again. It's filled
with perhaps the wittiest dialogue in the last few years. It
introduces us to a slew of interesting characters, then
effectively whisks many of them away to a ski vacation. We are
left with the true holdovers: Mary, the school's
cafeteria manager; Paul, a stubborn teacher living in a sort of
self-imposed exile; and Angus, an intelligent, but inwardly
angry young boarding school student. Let the in-depth
exploration of these three incredibly interesting souls begin!
There is a richness here, like an ordinary piece of cake that,
when bitten into, blows your mind with its complex flavors. If
it feels like a comedy and a drama, it is. It's also a holiday
film about what holidays should center on - appreciating those
in your orbit who, despite liking them or not, impact you in
positive ways. |
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Miramax, Gran Via;
Focus Features |
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Top 20
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#17 Top |
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CODA (2021),
Director: Sian Heder, rated PG-13 for language
Every
family has its own language.
 Starring: Emilia
Jones, Eugenio Derbez, Troy Kotsur, Ferdia Walsh-Peelo, Daniel
Durant, Marlee Matlin
DML Rating:
★★★★★★★★★☆
- near perfect
"You know why God made
farts smell? So deaf people could enjoy them too." - Frank
Rossi
Why watch this?
It's so unique, and necessary, to watch such a wonderful film!
Plot Summary: CODA
follows Ruby, a high school senior who is the only hearing
member of her deaf family. She helps her family run their
struggling fishing business, acting as their interpreter and
connecting them to the hearing world. When Ruby discovers her
passion and talent for singing, she finds herself torn between
her obligations to her family and her aspirations to pursue her
dreams.
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Dad's Preview:
CODA grabbed me from the first minute. It pulls you in.
You cannot take your eyes off the screen. It requires your
dedicated focus and concentration. That's the point. The film
exposes us to the stark reality that the deaf community lives
with every second of every day. This soulful film is funny,
painful, inspirational, light, heavy - everything. Troy Kotsur,
as Ruby's father,
really captured my heart; man, I felt every pang of anguish
emanating from his eyes... and his deepest soul. |
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Vendôme
Pictures, Pathé; Apple Original Films |
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Top 20
Coming-of-Age Drama Films
#16 Top |
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Grave of the Fireflies
(1988),
Director: Isao Takahata, Not rated (Dad's guess PG-13)
It belongs on any
list of the greatest war films ever made - Roger Ebert
 Starring:
(the voice talents of:) Tsutomu Tatsumi, Ayano Shiraishi, Akemi
Yamaguchi, Yoshiko Shinohara, Kôzô Hashida, Masayo Sakai, Kazumi
Nozaki, Yoshio Matsuoka, Masahiro Kanetake, Kiyoshi Yanagawa
DML Rating:
★★★★★★★★★☆
- near perfect
"Why do fireflies have
to die so soon?" - Setsuko
Why watch this? War
is hell on soldiers, but it's also hell on the civilians that
live beneath falling bombs.
Plot Summary: During
the final months of World War II in Japan, teenage Seita and his
young sister Setsuko are orphaned after an American firebombing
destroys their home and separates them from their parents. The
two children must rely completely on one another for survival,
struggling to find food and shelter in the war-torn countryside
after a falling out with their unsympathetic aunt. Their story
is a heartbreaking tale of the devastating impact of war on
innocent civilians and the profound strength of their sibling
bond amidst unimaginable hardship.
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Dad's Preview:
This visceral, emotional film depicts the cost war takes on
civilians. It is based on a semi-autobiographical short story
written by Akiyuki Nosaka, who himself survived during and after
the incendiary bombings of Kobe, Japan. The people left to fend
for themselves amid the rubble of their world had it bad enough.
Nosaka had the added responsibility of caring for his little
sister, Setsuko. Though an animated feature, their journey is
anything but childish or funny. It heart-shattering, as they
fight to find food and stay alive. This is about incredibly
courage and horrible tragedy. Many consider this to be one of
the greatest animated films ever made. For me, it is a necessary
anti-war film that drives home the point: war simply kills
people. Period. |
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Studio Ghibli;
Toho |
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Top 20
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#15 Top |
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The Fabelmans (2022),
Director: Steven Spielberg, rated PG-13 for adult
themes
Capture every moment.
 Starring:
Michelle Williams, Paul Dano, Seth Rogan, Gabriel LaBelle, Judd Hirsch, Jeannie
Berlin, Robin Bartlett, Sam Rechner, Chloe East
DML Rating:
★★★★★★★★★☆
- near perfect
"In this family, it's
the scientists versus the artists. Sammy's on my team,
he takes
after me, except he's got real talent."– Mitzi Fabelman
Why watch this? How
and why would a boy want to make movies? Here's one way...
Plot Summary:
Based on Steven Spielberg's childhood, The Fabelmans follows
Sammy Fabelman, a young aspiring filmmaker, as he navigates his
coming-of-age in post-World War II America. He discovers a
profound family secret, forcing him to confront difficult truths
about his parents and those around him. Ultimately, Sammy
explores how the power of film helps him understand his family
and pursue his dream of becoming a storyteller.
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Dad's Preview:
There are two films that evoke the power of motion pictures. The
first is the treasure
Cinema Paradiso (1988). This is the second. The great
Steven Spielberg finally gives us his story in this film based
loosely on his life. Thank God he does not sugarcoat it. This
has all the pains he experienced: the disappointment of his
father, anti-Semitic bullying and his parent's divorce. Yet
through all that, and maybe to some degree because of all
that, one of our generations greatest storytellers was born. |
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Amblin Ent.,
Reliance Ent.; Universal Studios |
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#14 Top |
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Millions
(2004),
Director: Danny Boyle, rated PG
Can anyone be
truly good?
 Starring: Alex Etelm,
Lewis Owen McGibbon, James Nesbitt, Daisy Donovan, Christopher
Fulford, Pearce Quigley, Jane Hogarth
DML Rating:
★★★★★★★★★☆
- near perfect
"God
doesn't rob banks, all right? God does not rob banks." –
Damian Cunningham
Why watch this?
Sometimes it's fun to watch British youngsters in a unique
situation.
Plot Summary:
Seven-year-old Damian finds a duffel bag stuffed with money that
seemingly falls from the sky. He believes it's a gift from God
and wants to use it for good, while his older brother Anthony
desires to spend it on personal luxuries. The brothers face a
moral dilemma and a race against time, as the money's value is
about to change and its mysterious origins attract unwanted
attention.
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Dad's Preview:
Two British children, Alex and Lewis, suddenly find themselves
in possession of a large duffle bag of cash. A LOT of cash. This
funny and touching story goes through what happens next, who
they tell, and what they eventually do with the money. To add some flair,
young Alex often communes
with dead Saints. Yea, kinda like
The Sixth Sense
(1999), but not scary at all. This film is delightful on so
many levels. |
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UK Film Council,
BBC Films, Mission Pictures,
Inside Track 2,
Ingenious Film Partners;
Pathé Distribution |
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Top 20
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#13 Top |
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What's Eating Gilbert Grape
(1993),
Director: Lasse Hallström, rated PG-13
for mature themes
Life is a
Terrible Thing to Sleep Through.
 Starring:
Johnny Depp, Leonardo DiCaprio, Juliette Lewis, Darlene Cates, Laura Harrington,
Mary Kate Schellhardt, Kevin Tighe, John C. Reilly
DML Rating:
★★★★★★★★★☆
- near perfect
"I'm not gonna let her
be a joke." -
Gilbert, speaking about his mother
Why watch this?
This heart-rendering story is superb thanks to its incredible
cast.
Plot Summary:
Gilbert Grape is a young man burdened by the weight of caring
for his morbidly obese mother and his intellectually disabled
younger brother, Arnie, in their small, stagnant Iowa town.
Gilbert struggles to balance his family responsibilities with
his own desires for happiness and freedom, feeling trapped by
his circumstances. His life takes an unexpected turn with the
arrival of Becky, a free-spirited woman who challenges his
perspective and offers him a glimpse of a different future.
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Dad's Preview:
A lot of warranted attention went to
19-year-old Leo DiCaprio, who garnered a Supporting Actor Oscar
nomination, but it's Johnny Depp who makes it all work. You can just
feel the weight he bears each and every day supporting his
dysfunctional family. Yet, for as bad as it is, he still manages
to keep going, hoping that things will someday change for all of
them. Why the Academy disrespects Mr. Depp is beyond me.
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Matalon Teper
Ohisson; Paramount Pics |
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#12 Top |
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The Perks of Being a Wallflower (2012),
Director: Stephen Chbosky, rated PG-13
We accept the
love we think we deserve.
 Starring: Logan
Lerman, Emma Watson, Ezra Miller, Mae Whitman, Kate Walsh, Dylan
McDermott, Joan Cusack, Paul Rudd
DML Rating:
★★★★★★★★★☆
- near perfect
"You
can't just sit there and put everybody's lives ahead of yours
and
think that counts as love." - Samantha "Sam" Button
Why watch this? It
is an interesting, relevant, coming-of-age story that most of
use can relate to.
Plot Summary:
The film follows un-extraordinary Charlie, a freshman high
school student. He suffers from clinical depression and is therefore
incredibly shy. He meets two seniors, Patrick (an extremely
animated and rebellious gay boy) and his step-sister Samantha
"Sam" (a quite, awkward and adorable girl who is in a steady
relationship). Patrick and Sam decide it's a good idea to bring
Charlie into their small group of social outcasts; sorta take
him under their wings. The brainy Patrick quickly develops a
crush on Sam, and he helps her study to improve her SAT score.
Then normal high school stuff occurs and starts to un-repress
Charlie's mental issues.
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Dad's Preview:
About ten minutes into
this film, I felt it grab me. It felt fresh, creative and
from the heart. This often-poignant story centers on the
over-blown concepts of being "cool", and the
ever-present pressures of high school. Why can't kids just be who
they are? It has a lot to do with parents who demand that their
kids stand out, make A's, be exceptional. How will mediocre get the scholarship or
big job? This
film begs to differ. Life is wonderful because of these
"wallflowers" exist, filling the spaces and giving many
delightful misfits a place to feel safe... and even loved.
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Mr. Mudd
Productions; Summit Ent. thru
Lionsgate |
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#11 Top |
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The
Breakfast Club (1985),
Director: John Hughes, rated R for language; mild
drug use
Five
strangers with nothing in common, except each other.
 Starring: Emilio
Estevez, Paul Gleason, Anthony Michael Hall, Judd Nelson, Molly
Ringwald, Ally Sheedy, Paul Gleason
DML Rating:
★★★★★★★★★☆
- near perfect
"When you grow up, your
heart dies." - Allison
Why watch this?
So many 80's teen comedies were a waste of time. Not this one.
Plot Summary:
Five high school students, representing different social
cliques, are forced to spend a Saturday in detention together.
Over the course of the day, their initial differences and
stereotypes break down as they discover shared anxieties and
vulnerabilities. Through heartfelt conversations and moments of
connection, they come to realize they have more in common than
they thought, challenging their preconceived notions of each
other and themselves.
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Dad's Preview:
I was expecting another
John Hughes sappy teen comedy (which I am fine with), but from the start, this film
was
different. Here we have five very different teenagers. At first they're loyal to their groups: the nerd, the jock, the rich bitch,
the emo introvert, the rebel. Slowly, though, as the day drags
on, they all open up, exposing their weaknesses, being
vulnerable. It's touching, and real, leaving the viewers to
grapple with the cliques they might have belonged to, and
perhaps those they treated badly because of it. |
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A&M Films,
Channel Productions;
Universal Pictures |
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#10 Top |
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Parenthood
(1989),
Director: Ron Howard, rated PG-13 for adult themes
The director
of "Splash," "Willow" and "Cocoon" brings you a comedy about
life, love and the gentle art of raising children.
 Starring: Steve
Martin, Tom Hulce, Jason Robarbs, Diane Wiest, Rick Moranis,
Martha Plimpton, Keanu Reeves, Mary Steenburgen, Joaquin Phoenix
DML Rating:
★★★★★★★★★★
- perfect
“My
whole life is have to." - Gil Buckman
Why
watch this? ... it's great film about a normal family with its
traumas, issues and events.
Plot Summary:
The film follows the chaotic and often humorous lives of the
Buckman family, showcasing the joys and tribulations across
multiple generations as they navigate the complexities of
raising children. The film explores various parenting styles and
the challenges each family member faces, including career
pressure, marital difficulties, and the struggle to understand
and guide their children through different stages of life.
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Dad's Preview:
Steve Martin plays an excellent father in many flicks.
Ironically, in
real-life he bore no children. This film touches on the things that
parents do to deal with "family things"
that are often out of their control: a child who lacks confidence; an
adult
son who always makes bad decisions; parents who obsess with
perfection. Those are serious topics, and Parenthood covers them
in a way that makes you laugh. You'll enjoy the warm performances from a
stellar all-star cast. |
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Imagine
Entertainment; Universal Pictures |
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#9 Top |
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The Cowboys
(1972),
Director: Mark Rydell, rated PG for violence, language
All
they wanted was their chance to be men...and he gave it
to them.
 Starring: John
Wayne, Roscoe Lee Brown, Bruce Dern, Colleen Dewhurst, Adolfo Martinez, Slim Pickens, Stephen Hudis
DML Rating:
★★★★★★★★★☆
- near perfect
"I'm thirty years older
than you are. I had my back broke once, and my hip twice.
And on
my worst day I could beat the hell out of you." – Wil
Anderson
Why watch this? Wayne
has never been better, as a man desperate to drive his cattle to
market.
Plot Summary: Wil
Andersen, a rancher needing help for his cattle drive, is forced
to hire on a group of inexperienced schoolboys after his regular
crew leaves for the gold rush. He trains these youngsters, who
learn about life and the responsibilities of being a cowboy
during their arduous journey. Their challenging drive is
complicated by the presence of a gang of rustlers who are after
their herd.
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Dad's Preview:
This is a superb non-standard Western. Wayne has to holster his
pistols and become a surrogate father for the young boys he has
hired for the trail drive. I'll forever love Roscoe Lee Brown as Mr. Nightlinger,
the cook, who breathes
real life into his role. And who will ever forget Bruce Dern as "Long Hair",
the film's creepy, murderous antagonist. I love it when the
Dukes tells the boys each early morning, "We're burnin' daylight!" |
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Rydell; Warner Bros. |
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#8 Top |
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Up
(2009),
Director: Pete Docter, rated PG
The greatest
adventure is just getting back home.
 Starring:
Ed Asner,
Christopher Plummer, Jordan Nagai, Bob Peterson, Delroy Lindo
DML Rating:
★★★★★★★★★★
- perfect
DML Top 50
#35 -
Dad's Full (Spoiler) Review
and Deep Dive of Up
"My name is Dug. I
have just met you, and I love you." - Dug
Why watch this? I feel-good story that requires your
imagination and suspension of belief.
Plot Summary: Carl
Fredricksen, a retired balloon salesman, embarks on a journey to
the wilds of South America in his house, lifted by thousands of
balloons, fulfilling a lifelong dream. He unintentionally takes
along a stowaway and young Wilderness Explorer named Russell.
The unlikely duo encounters adventure, strange creatures, and a
surprising revelation about Carl's childhood hero on their
journey towards Paradise Falls.
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Dad's Preview:
In a crowded stable of excellent Pixar-Disney films, this one
stands out for me. Perhaps it's Carl, the grumpy old man looking
to get away from a world that doesn't want him any more. Maybe it's
Russell, the cheeky, plump young Boy Scout trying to earn his merit badges.
It could be Dug, the delightful dog who is enabled "talk"
thanks to a voice
modulator. Combine these quirky characters with a high-flying,
creative premise, and you have a winner in my book. It packs a
punch, too - You'll be bawling before the opening credits have
finished rolling. |
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Pixar Animation
Studios; Walt Disney
Studios Motion Pictures |
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#7 Top |
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Spirited Away (2001,
U.S. release date
2002),
Director: Hayao Miyazaki, rated PG
Prepare to be
spirited away.
 Starring:
Rumi Hiiragi, Miyu Irino, Mari Natsuki, Takeshi Naito, Yasuko
Sawaguchi
English dub - Daveigh Chase, Jason Marsden, Suzanne
Pleshette, Lauren Holly, Michael Chiklis, David Ogden Stiers
DML Rating:
★★★★★★★★★★
- perfect
"Three days of eating our
food and her smell will go away. And if she doesn't work hard,
roast her, boil her,
do whatever you want. Now get back to work." -
Haku
Why watch this?
You need to experience this visual wonder conveyed by Hayao
Miyazaki.
Plot Summary:
During her family's move, a sullen 10-year-old girl named
Chihiro wanders into a world ruled by gods, witches, and
spirits. Her parents are transformed into pigs after eating
unattended food in an abandoned amusement park, leaving Chihiro
trapped in this strange realm. To survive and find a way back,
Chihiro must secure employment at a bathhouse for spirits, where
she encounters various magical beings and faces numerous
challenges.
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Dad's Preview:
Though this was released by Disney, it's not a Disney film,
and I suggest that it's not really for small children. It is a
wonderful fable about a young girl's dream-like transition from child to
young adult. Throw in a lot of creative symbolism, some of
which has meaning, some not so much. It is visually wild, and
you'll wonder, "Who thinks up this stuff?" Director Miyazaki
apparently, and thank goodness for his unique perspective. Who
also loved it was the Academy, rewarding this with the Oscar for
Best Animated Feature Film. |
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Studio Ghibli;
Toho |
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Top 20
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#6 Top |
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Cinema Paradiso (1988),
Director: Giuseppe Tornatore, rated PG
A
celebration of youth, friendship, and the everlasting
magic of the movies.
 Starring:
Phillippe Noiret, Salvatore Cascio, Marco Leonardi, Agnese Nano,
Antonella Attili, Enzo Cannavale
DML Rating:
★★★★★★★★★★
- perfect
"Whatever you end up
doing, love it. The way you loved the projection booth
when you
were a young squirt." - Alfredo
Why watch this? This
single film, more than any other, explains why I love movies.
Plot Summary: This
story follows Salvatore, a celebrated film director, who returns
to his Sicilian hometown for the funeral of his childhood mentor
and friend, Alfredo. The film is told through a flashbacks,
reflecting on Salvatore's youth and his bond with Alfredo, the
projectionist at the local cinema. Through their shared love for
movies and the lessons Alfredo imparts, Salvatore finds guidance
and inspiration that shapes his path to becoming a filmmaker.
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Dad's Preview:
It is impossible for me to explain this film with getting
emotional. This wonderful film traverses through time and
tragedy, with "moving pictures" as a constant backdrop for
everything that happens during the boy's journey to adulthood.
Especially poignant is his love affair with the beautiful Elena. This
powerful film's
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Les Films
Ariane, RAI, TF1, Cristaldi Film,
Forum Picture;
Titanus,
Ariane Dist. |
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#5 Top |
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Stand By Me (1986),
Director: Rob Reiner, rated R for language, crude
humor
For
some, it's the last real taste of innocence, and the first real
taste of life.
But for everyone, it's the time that memories are made of.
 Starring: Wil
Wheaton, River Phoenix, Corey Feldman, Jerry O’Connell, Kiefer
Sutherland, Casey Siemaszko, Frances Lee McCain, Richard
Dreyfuss
DML Rating:
★★★★★★★★★★
- perfect
"Boy, you don't know
nothing. Mighty Mouse is a cartoon. Superman's a real guy.
There's no way a cartoon could beat up a real guy!" - Teddy
Why watch this?
I was one of these kids, going on long adventures, playing in
the woods, worrying my mom.
Plot Summary:
Four young friends are on a journey through the Oregon
wilderness in the summer of 1959, as they search for a missing
boy. During their quest, they face various adventures and
challenges, which test their bonds and force them to confront
personal struggles. This journey becomes a coming-of-age
experience, shaping their individual paths and deepening their
understanding of friendship and loss.
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Dad's Preview:
This is yet another film created from a Stephen King story (The Body). It follows four 12-year-old boys who venture to
find the body of a boy who was killed along a remote stretch of
railroad tracks. The strength of this film is simply the mannerisms and interactions
between the boys. Each one is different,
with unique skills and problems. Yet they stick together, as they get
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Act III
Productions; Columbia Pictures |
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Top 20
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#4 Top |
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Good Will Hunting
(1997),
Director: Gus Van Sant; rated R for language
Some people
can never believe in themselves, until someone believes in them.
 Starring:
Robin Williams, Matt Damon, Ben Affleck, Stellan Skarsgard, Minnie Driver, Casey
Affleck, Cole Hauser, Matt Mercier
DML Rating:
★★★★★★★★★★
- perfect
"If
you ever disrespect my wife again, I will end you. I will
f'ing end you.
You got that, chief?" – Sean Maguire
Why watch this?
... it's layered and powerful - Williams, Damon, and an
incredible script.
Plot Summary:
Will Hunting is a gifted but troubled young man from South
Boston who works as a janitor at MIT. After solving a
challenging math problem left on a blackboard, Will's
extraordinary intelligence is discovered by a professor. To
avoid jail time for his reckless behavior, Will agrees to work
with the professor and attend therapy sessions with an
empathetic psychologist who helps him confront his past and
unlock his potential.
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Dad's Preview:
This one of Robin Williams' greatest performances (he won the
Academy Award for Best Supporting Actor). It was this film, and
its screenplay, that catapulted Affleck and Damon onto
Hollywood's radar. However, the film is carried by the
relationship between Damon, a boy genius, and Williams, a honest
psychiatrist who searches for a way to reach a boy who
specializes in out-witting those around him. When these two are
on screen, you can cannot look away. You hang on every word. |
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Be Gentlemen;
Miramax Films |
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Top 20
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Dead Poets Society
(1989),
Director: Peter Weir, rated
PG-13
He was their
inspiration. He made their lives extraordinary.
 Starring: Robin
Williams, Ethan Hawke, Robert Sean Leonard, Josh Charles,
Kurtwood Smith, George Martin
DML Rating:
★★★★★★★★★★
- perfect
"No matter what anybody
tells you, words and ideas can change the world." – John Keating
Why watch this?
It shows the wonder found in new, controversial ideas; and the lengths some people will go
to suppress them.
Plot Summary: At a
strict all-boys preparatory school in 1959, an unconventional
English teacher uses poetry to inspire his students to embrace
individuality and challenge societal expectations. He encourages
them to "seize the day" and pursue their passions, leading to
both inspiring self-discovery and direct confrontation with
school officials used to doing things more conservatively.
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Dad's Preview:
Robin Williams really changed his career trajectory with this film.
It established him as more than just a comedic actor. It is a
wonderful, albeit painful, story of a prep school English teacher who is ahead of
his time. He desperately strives to tap into the passions within
his young male students (using his witty comedy style). The film is uplifting, wonderful
and simultaneously tragic. Everyone will forever remember the phrase, "Carpe Diem!" |
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Touchstone
Pics, Silver Screen Partners IV;
Buena Vista
Pictures Distributing |
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The Color Purple (1985),
Director: Steven Spielberg, rated PG-13 for
language
It's about life. It's about love. It's about us.
 Starring:
Whoopi Goldberg, Danny Glover, Oprah Winfrey, Adolph Caesar,
Margaret Avery, Rae Dawn Chong
DML Rating:
★★★★★★★★★★
- perfect
"A girl child ain't
safe in a family of mens, but I ain't never thought I'd have to
fight in my own house!
I loves Harpo, God knows I do. But I'll
kill him dead 'fo I let him beat me." - Sofia
Why watch this? This
incredible saga shows that courage can be silent and strength
is enduring.
Plot Summary: The
film follows timid Celie, an African-American woman in early
1900's rural Georgia, as she endures difficult circumstances,
including domestic violence and bigotry. Separated from her
beloved sister Nettie, Celie finds strength and hope through
various relationships, particularly with the strong-willed
singer Shug Avery and her own growing self-reliance. The story
spans forty years, depicting Celie's journey from oppression to
finding her voice.
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Dad's Preview:
This is a journey wrought with pain, cruelty and
oppression. This inspiring film was our introduction to the amazing Whoopi Goldberg, Danny
Glover and the indomitable Oprah Winfrey. Director Steven Spielberg, though he
took a lot of crap for it, again, hits
the cinematic mark. If you don't see only black and white, check
out this valuable American story about a part of our history
that needs to be told. |
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Amblin
Entertainment, The Guber-Peters
Company;
Warner Bros. |
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Almost Famous (2000),
Director: Cameron Crowe, rated PG-13 for language, sexual
situations
Stillwater
Runs Deep!
 Starring:
Patrick Fugit, Kate Hudson, Billy Crudup, Jason Lee, Frances McDormand,
Anna Paquin, Fairuza Balk, Philip S. Hoffman,
Zooey Deschanel
DML Rating:
★★★★★★★★★★
- perfect
DML Top 50
#31 -
Dad's Full (Spoiler) Review
and Deep Dive of Almost Famous
"Aw, man. You made friends
with them. See, friendship is the booze they feed you.
They want
you to get drunk on feeling like you belong." - Lester Bangs
Why watch this?
It's the swan song about rock and rock in my era, you know, the
awesome 70's!
Plot Summary:
William Miller, at 15-years-old, is an aspiring journalist who
gets a dream assignment: to write a cover story for Rolling
Stone magazine. He embarks on a tour leg with the up-and-coming
rock band Stillwater, experiencing the highs and lows of life on
the road. William navigates the world of rock and roll, forming
relationships with the band members and a groupie named Penny
Lane, all while trying to maintain his journalistic integrity.
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Dad's Preview:
Much of the film's earnestness comes from the film's director, Cameron Crowe,
who lived a life
similar to young William Miller. He too was a Rolling Stone
writer, and his wife is none other than Nancy Wilson, guitarist
for Heart - So the man knows the rock world. Bill Crudup, as the incendiary Russell
Hammond, is unforgettable. Kate Hudson's pretty darn good, too. It has great
musical performances and a wonderful
soundtrack documenting the last great years of Rock 'n' Roll. |
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DreamWorks
Pics, Columbia Pics, Vinyl Films;
DreamWorks
Dist. LLC |
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